Adventures in Polyamory

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I'm Kitten, a Neutral Good pansexual poly pagan geek mom living in Seattle, actively searching for new ideas and new connections. I'm a strange mix of experienced and n00b when it comes to poly; I've been actively living the poly lifestyle since 1997, but have lived in mostly small towns, and have kindof stumbled into partners by accident. I have never experienced a poly community...until very recently. This has opened up a whole new world to me, as well as new pitfalls that I'd never been aware of. Join me as I chronicle my journey into this incredibly rewarding lifestyle.


Note: Nicknames or initials will always be used in this blog. If you think you know who I'm referring to, DO NOT call them out by name or use identifying characteristics.


"A slut is a person of any gender who has the courage to lead life according to the radical proposition that sex is nice and pleasure is good for you."

-Dossie Easton

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Here are my rules, if you want to be allowed to comment in this space.

  1. Keep it civil. I’m fine with debate and disagreements; I actually WANT my worldview challenged and explored. Just do it with respect. Name-calling, slut-shaming, victim-blaming and the like will get your comments deleted. Period. Wil Wheaton says it best: Don’t be a dick.
  2. Don’t identify people. Don’t even guess at identities. I’m out to my friends, family, etc., but not everybody mentioned is. I will go a long ways towards removing identifying characteristics of the people I mention, but I won’t be able to avoid everything. And just because you think you might know who I’m referring to, it doesn’t follow that you’re right. So just don’t do it.
  3. Keep religion out of this. This blog is about poly, and has absolutely nothing to do with religion. Any mention whatsoever of sinning, going to hell, religious verses, or judgement will get you banned. Zero tolerance policy.