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I’m pansexual. I’ve loved women. The only reason that I’m not married/in a partnership with a woman is simply because I haven’t found that relationship with one. I found it with a man, and I am so incredibly privileged because of that. I have rights with him that are a matter of course, simply because he is male and I am female and we are married. I had no idea just how...
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So, I took a test. Turns out I’m Neutral Good. This description seems to fit me pretty damn well, actually. The further down I read in the writeup of the alignment, the more I identify with it. That’s a damn good outline of how I think. I had thought that I might be more along the lines of a Chaotic Good, but as I read more about that alignment, I strongly disagreed with many of the...
How do you know when it’s time to stop fighting and just let go? And how do you find the strength to do it once you know? The more important a thing, or person, or idea is to you, the harder you will fight to keep it. But at some point you realize that you’re fighting just to fight, the battle is already lost, and it’s time to let go of what you’re trying so hard to save. ...
Those of you who follow me on Twitter might have noticed that there has been some angst and pain in my life in recent weeks. I haven’t gone into detail, mostly because it was right in the thick of things. I’m still not going to go into too much detail, but I’ll give a sketch: due to some miscommunications, a GREAT deal of life stress, and emotions running high on all sides, my...