July 2011
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Fine, I'll admit it...
My name is Kitten, and I’m an extrovert. (You can stop laughing over there, you two. Yes, you. You know who you are.)
I’ve been in denial of this for years, because I’m painfully SHY in a lot of situations. I mean, palms-sweating, heartrate-skyrocketing, lightheaded-to-the-point-of-feeling-faint shy. To me, you simply couldn’t be an extrovert if you were shy. But I never...
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Curiosity about poly
A friend of mine has just begun to date a poly guy, and had a few questions on the subject, and knowing me and my lifestyle, wanted to pick my brain. Below is my response. I hope you find it helpful.
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Important lessons, relearned
I’m discovering that I need to remind myself of some very recently-learned lessons. Quoted from a recent blog post of mine:
I’m worthy of being treated with respect, and standing up for myself to GET that respect is a GOOD thing.
Anyone who thinks that I don’t deserve that respect isn’t worthy of my time, let alone my love.
Accommodating the negative in a relationship out of fear of...
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One more stepping stone...
We found a place to live, signed paperwork, and put down a deposit last weekend. This week has been a frenzy of last-minute details, changing addresses, signing up with a property management company to rent out our Wenatchee condo, and beginning to pack.
I start my new job here in Seattle tomorrow. Oh, did I mention I’m already in Seattle? I’m crashing with friends for the rest of...
